Upon reading Sons and Lovers, by DH Lawerence, I came to a realization. Many of the books we read have Mother-Son issues in them. No Father-Daughter issues – yet… maybe that is in the next ten. Let’s begin with Ulysses and Portrait of a Young Artist -Stephan Dedalus is plagued with his relationship with is Mother. The fact that he could not bring himself to pray with her on her death bed plagues him through both books. He continues with a incredible conflict with women and his treatment of them into adulthood.
Lolita? No, but I bet Humphrey had mother issues too! He was a mess all around.
Next, we have Brave New World. The second half of the book is the tortured relationship of Mother and Son and the demise of both their cultures.
The Sound and the Fury has THREE sons and a neuortic mother. Neither has a healthy relationship with her and vice versa. Benjy has no capacity to have a healthy relationship, Jason resents yet loves his mother, and Quentin loved everyone a bit too much.
Sons and Lovers – WOWZA, yes. Paul describes his mother as if she is his lover. Can we say dysfunctional? A mother clinging to life and living vicariously through her living son trying to salvage a life she so wanted. A son not knowing how to separate his relationship with his mother from a normal relationship with a woman. The two are intertwined due to this strange defination of life through her son.
Five out of Nine books with Dysfunctional mother/son relationships. I think I am still sticking by my all writers are nut balls post!
Is it that us daughters are just well adjusted? We get along with our fathers? Or is it male authors? Or is it all authors? Am I overthinking this?
Why doesn’t anyone answer my deep questions? They aren’t rhetorical, I really want to know!! *smile*
Grab a book, any book and READ!!!